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Thanks to misplaced notions of romance spread by poets, authors, television and movies, many a potentially great bond between a man and a woman have been destroyed. Love is widely considered as the magic ingredient that is supposed to make people desire one another for lifetimes. In reality this is not true. Love is not a goal nor an end in itself but an ingredient of an ingredient in life and living. It is friendship, not love that is the magic ingredient in a successful or

Whether by luck, parental arrangement, love, lust or seduction, once she has him a woman is never happy about sharing her man. I am talking not only about sharing her man with another woman, but also with friend, mother in law, etc. A woman resents sharing her man, with other interests, which begs the question 'why is this so?' Permit me to explain. Though I use the terms 'husband' and 'wife', to explain, it also applies to temporary relationships and live in arrangements, a

An American tourist desired to meet an Indian Mystic. So his hosts arranged for him to meet a Rishi (an enlightened being). On entering the small room, the American was astonished to see the Rishi's room and living space, so bare and simple. The only furniture was a mat and a few wooden utensils. Tourist :"With due respect, may I ask where's your furniture and other household things?" Rishi : "Where is yours?" Tourist : "Mine? But I'm only a visitor here." Rishi : "So am I..

In spite of wanting to see his friend, the  wise man restrained himself, thus not visiting his friend for many days. When he did go to visit him, his friend remonstrated, 'Why have you taken so long to visit?' The wise man replied, 'It is better than you asking me, why have you come again?' Friendships are strained and even lost by interacting either too rarely or too often. Friendship is like a 'Diya', an oil lamp. It requires a regular supply of fuel oil to keep  the flame

With very rare exception, my entire upbringing and education was in a all male environment. My interaction with females was very limited except for close family. For me females were alien. Growing up friendship or a meaningful relationship with girls was extremely difficult, because I grew up with two ridiculous and extreme views of females. One from our our culture that males were monsters and evil and females were goddesses, pure and angelic. The other view learnt from fr

Effective Communication and Conversation is not only about speaking and getting through. It also involves winning people to our point of view. This makes it necessary not to say everything we want to but to leave unsaid what could cause offence, and alienate people. Somethings should also be left unsaid because it may distract us from our goals and objectives. A diplomat is someone who remembers a lady's name and her preferences but not her age Facebook - Twitter - linkedin

Life is energy. An artist is able to sense, capture and express this energy of life in myriad ways. By and by our senses dull because of many reasons. Our preoccupation with becoming rich, famous and powerful. Our monotonous lives, The death of wonder by the acquisition of excessive knowledge and the resulting egoistic intellectualism. The drudgery of servitude to ideologies of religion, politics, and communities. The harassment by government bureaucracies, and thugs. The ex

"A mature person does not fall in love, he rises in love. The word ’fall’ is not right. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love. Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand – they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone. They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don’t have the backbone, the spine; they don’t have that integrity to stand alone." "A mature person has the

"The individual who can but does not read, has no advantage over the individual who is illiterate" ~ Gurvinder Singh Success is dependant on many factors, and is different for each individual. However there are certain traits that seems to be common for most successful people. One of the important commonality factors is that success people be they leaders in Business, Military, Social, Political or Religious they are voracious readers. This is because they have a huge cravin

"Reasonable people equally informed seldom disagree" ~ Varinder Singh From my book and Seminar on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' We are all trying to sell something. An idea, a product, an emotion, whatever it may be, it involves communication and conversation. To facilitate development of this vital trait, Guru Wonder conducts a one and two day program on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' Contact : Telephone:  +91 957 951 0353 Email: Guru Wonder Facebook -

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Communication, is about getting through the barriers the recipients create around themselves.  The greatest barrier is a listening block created by the recipient wishing to empty himself or herself of his or her views. If we want people to listen to us, we have to make adequate space for them and their views, irrespective of how trivial the matter or irrational they may appear. We have to listen to others to have ourselves heard. My son Amarprit now 34 years young often accom

From my book and Seminar on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' We are all trying to sell something. An idea, a product, an emotion, whatever it may be, it involves communication and conversation. To facilitate development of this vital trait, Guru Wonder conducts a full day program on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' Contact : Telephone:  +91 957 951 0353 Email: Guru Wonder Facebook - Twitter - linkedin - SikhNet #argument #book #communication #conversation #di

Female moorland hawker dragonflies freeze mid-air, crash to the ground, and lie motionless when faced with aggressive males. This happens also in certain other cases of spiders etc. Human sexuality is also an important aspect for our happiness. Sex is a natural and important biological drive essential for the survival of our species. To condemn what is perfectly natural and deem sex as dirty and a sin, leads to frustration. This suppression of body and emotional needs drives

While on a business trip to Defiance, Ohio, USA in 1987, my brother Varinder and I met again with Randall a friendly but tough business prospect, who was co-owner of a large manufacturing company. The day was spent on negotiations and drawing up contracts etc. requiring much secretarial work. Randall desperately needed a secretary and constantly bemoaned that he was overworked, doing so many things that a good secretary could easily and efficiently handle. That evening Randal