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- Nov 8, 2019
- 1 min
The Art of Conversation ~ Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam
It seems we have lost the art of conversation. Here are some golden guidelines followed by Former President of India - Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam #AbdulKalam #APJAbdulKalam #brother #children #conversation #Guru #Gur_Wonder #Gurvinder #father #friend #India #Kalam #love #mother #officials #politician #President #relatives #respect #sister #talk #wife #worker My grateful thanks to Mr. J Jamshaid for this pearl
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- Jun 11, 2019
- 1 min
Not saying something
Effective Communication and Conversation is not only about speaking and getting through. It also involves winning people to our point of view. This makes it necessary not to say everything we want to but to leave unsaid what could cause offence, and alienate people. Somethings should also be left unsaid because it may distract us from our goals and objectives. A diplomat is someone who remembers a lady's name and her preferences but not her age Facebook - Twitter - linkedin
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- May 25, 2019
- 2 min
Rising or Falling in Love?
"A mature person does not fall in love, he rises in love. The word ’fall’ is not right. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love. Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand – they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone. They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don’t have the backbone, the spine; they don’t have that integrity to stand alone." "A mature person has the
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- May 21, 2019
- 1 min
Biggest problem with communication
The difference between information and communication is that in information is giving out and communication, is getting through. When we simply give information we rarely get through but we mistakenly believe that communication has taken place. A broadcast may not have been heard, or understood, when that happens it ceases to be a communication. Closed loop communication is an effective to confirm that communication has indeed been effected. Facebook - Twitter - linkedin - S
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- May 21, 2019
- 1 min
You cannot demand love, but ....
The end objective of communication, is to trigger action in others. We are driven by emotion more than rationality. If we want people to act, we can persuade them by giving them pleasure of positive strokes or we can drive them through giving them discomfort. To bring about positive feelings take long and require great effort, but they are usually irreversible. Negative feelings are quick, require little effort and are usually irreversible. Facebook - Twitter - linkedin - Si
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- May 20, 2019
- 2 min
No advantage, if you do not read.
"The individual who can but does not read, has no advantage over the individual who is illiterate" ~ Gurvinder Singh Success is dependant on many factors, and is different for each individual. However there are certain traits that seems to be common for most successful people. One of the important commonality factors is that success people be they leaders in Business, Military, Social, Political or Religious they are voracious readers. This is because they have a huge cravin
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- May 20, 2019
- 1 min
To agree is easy
"Reasonable people equally informed seldom disagree" ~ Varinder Singh From my book and Seminar on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' We are all trying to sell something. An idea, a product, an emotion, whatever it may be, it involves communication and conversation. To facilitate development of this vital trait, Guru Wonder conducts a one and two day program on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' Contact : Telephone: +91 957 951 0353 Email: Guru Wonder Facebook -
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- May 20, 2019
- 1 min
A book is a living gift
"A book is a living gift. A gift you can open again and again." Facebook - Twitter - linkedin - SikhNet #book #communication #conversation #disagreement #effective #friendship #Guru #GuruWonder #Gurvinder #happy #introspection #love #relationship #repeat #success #Wonder
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- May 19, 2019
- 3 min
Listen to be heard
Communication, is about getting through the barriers the recipients create around themselves. The greatest barrier is a listening block created by the recipient wishing to empty himself or herself of his or her views. If we want people to listen to us, we have to make adequate space for them and their views, irrespective of how trivial the matter or irrational they may appear. We have to listen to others to have ourselves heard. My son Amarprit now 34 years young often accom
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- May 18, 2019
- 1 min
Is winning the argument that important?
From my book and Seminar on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' We are all trying to sell something. An idea, a product, an emotion, whatever it may be, it involves communication and conversation. To facilitate development of this vital trait, Guru Wonder conducts a full day program on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' Contact : Telephone: +91 957 951 0353 Email: Guru Wonder Facebook - Twitter - linkedin - SikhNet #argument #book #communication #conversation #di
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