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Who is right or what is right?

Way we see things

Dec 9, 2019
2 min

Way we see things

We often ask, why can't they see the obvious. What is obvious to us, is not necessarily obvious to others. A man is usually stretched between two women, both who who desire to monopolise him. The mother and the wife. The affection they have for the man is of different types, but yet he must belong to them both. Both women are right but not entirely. This is because we recognise things, events, relationships and experiences through the window and filter of our mind. We like to

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Why do I write and blog?

Sep 6, 2019
3 min

Why do I write and blog?

A friend asked me, "Why do you write?" A good question, because I never really thought about it. This is human nature at work. We always act on instinct and then analyse later on. I suppose its 'later on' time now. Well, why do I write and speak? With ups and downs, my life has been like a roller coaster ride. I am grateful, that my life been made richer, more interesting and better because of the contribution of many people, some still living and many more of those who pre

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Not saying something

Jun 11, 2019
1 min

Not saying something

Effective Communication and Conversation is not only about speaking and getting through. It also involves winning people to our point of view. This makes it necessary not to say everything we want to but to leave unsaid what could cause offence, and alienate people. Somethings should also be left unsaid because it may distract us from our goals and objectives. A diplomat is someone who remembers a lady's name and her preferences but not her age Facebook - Twitter - linkedin

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Rising or Falling in Love?

May 25, 2019
2 min

Rising or Falling in Love?

"A mature person does not fall in love, he rises in love. The word ’fall’ is not right. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love. Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand – they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone. They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don’t have the backbone, the spine; they don’t have that integrity to stand alone." "A mature person has the

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Biggest problem with communication

May 21, 2019
1 min

Biggest problem with communication

The difference between information and communication is that in information is giving out and communication, is getting through. When we simply give information we rarely get through but we mistakenly believe that communication has taken place. A broadcast may not have been heard, or understood, when that happens it ceases to be a communication. Closed loop communication is an effective to confirm that communication has indeed been effected. Facebook - Twitter - linkedin - S

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You cannot demand love, but ....

May 21, 2019
1 min

You cannot demand love, but ....

The end objective of communication, is to trigger action in others. We are driven by emotion more than rationality. If we want people to act, we can persuade them by giving them pleasure of positive strokes or we can drive them through giving them discomfort. To bring about positive feelings take long and require great effort, but they are usually irreversible. Negative feelings are quick, require little effort and are usually irreversible. Facebook - Twitter - linkedin - Si

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No advantage, if you do not read.

May 20, 2019
2 min

No advantage, if you do not read.

"The individual who can but does not read, has no advantage over the individual who is illiterate" ~ Gurvinder Singh Success is dependant on many factors, and is different for each individual. However there are certain traits that seems to be common for most successful people. One of the important commonality factors is that success people be they leaders in Business, Military, Social, Political or Religious they are voracious readers. This is because they have a huge cravin

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To agree is easy

May 20, 2019
1 min

To agree is easy

"Reasonable people equally informed seldom disagree" ~ Varinder Singh From my book and Seminar on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' We are all trying to sell something. An idea, a product, an emotion, whatever it may be, it involves communication and conversation. To facilitate development of this vital trait, Guru Wonder conducts a one and two day program on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' Contact : Telephone: +91 957 951 0353 Email: Guru Wonder Facebook -

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A book is a living gift

Listen to be heard

May 19, 2019
3 min

Listen to be heard

Communication, is about getting through the barriers the recipients create around themselves. The greatest barrier is a listening block created by the recipient wishing to empty himself or herself of his or her views. If we want people to listen to us, we have to make adequate space for them and their views, irrespective of how trivial the matter or irrational they may appear. We have to listen to others to have ourselves heard. My son Amarprit now 34 years young often accom

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Is winning the argument that important?

May 18, 2019
1 min

Is winning the argument that important?

From my book and Seminar on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' We are all trying to sell something. An idea, a product, an emotion, whatever it may be, it involves communication and conversation. To facilitate development of this vital trait, Guru Wonder conducts a full day program on 'Effective Communication & Conversation' Contact : Telephone: +91 957 951 0353 Email: Guru Wonder Facebook - Twitter - linkedin - SikhNet #argument #book #communication #conversation #di

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